tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17132364.post212035929804988114..comments2023-10-23T16:56:24.871-04:00Comments on Wandering the World: Au RevoirMsTypohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10405552178619579820noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17132364.post-11545653060538800982009-06-08T09:05:37.054-04:002009-06-08T09:05:37.054-04:00I try not to say good-bye, as well. This world is...I try not to say good-bye, as well. This world is just too dang small, you never know when you're going to see someone again. After six years globe-trotting in the military, I know exactly what it's like to say farewells to good friends, and then in turn have to leave. It does suck, but some of those friendships, it's amazing how well they stick.Corinnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12763599518417369688noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17132364.post-66346808531943187462009-06-05T00:40:26.786-04:002009-06-05T00:40:26.786-04:00I agree, it is a really hard part of the expat lif...I agree, it is a really hard part of the expat life. You meet interesting people and then say goodbye.Vanessa Rogershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10398392394284077421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17132364.post-66226069253142554682009-06-04T20:55:17.086-04:002009-06-04T20:55:17.086-04:00After our few years in the military, I learned how...After our few years in the military, I learned how hard goodbyes are. I feel for you.Debbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17480046958714954128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17132364.post-33171041473216839242009-06-04T17:13:18.546-04:002009-06-04T17:13:18.546-04:00Oh and the.."we'll stay in touch" yo...Oh and the.."we'll stay in touch" you always give with sincerity but secretly know it isn't likely. I think about all the friends I miss and I don't miss my Expat days quite as much. Though living in the DC area it's pretty much the same story.. I'm going to get my scrapbook, some vino and a box of kleenex.. THANKS YOU MEANIE!DiPaola Mommahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02681677185895555919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17132364.post-51926039090084582522009-06-04T16:50:09.601-04:002009-06-04T16:50:09.601-04:00Goodbyes totally suck. I considered myself really ...Goodbyes totally suck. I considered myself really lucky to have made life long friends with a couple of people I met while living in Bahrain and Egypt.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16813508472498593787noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17132364.post-54673869433466355042009-06-04T14:38:22.536-04:002009-06-04T14:38:22.536-04:00Yuck :(
That sucks :(
I never had it that way sin...Yuck :(<br />That sucks :(<br /><br />I never had it that way since we never really had a good Expat community. Neither in Korea nor Kuwait.<br />Kuwait got close. But no cigar.<br />Hungary starts to get more interesting lately, but I doubt we can ever call it community and such.<br /><br />Sorry do many people go, but it's the end of school year thing I guess.<br /><br />Just look forward to Monday and to your trip ;)<br /><br />Hugs!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06735273216574108695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17132364.post-43412134878745490242009-06-04T13:50:03.792-04:002009-06-04T13:50:03.792-04:00ugghhh I hear you -goodbyes of any kind are really...ugghhh I hear you -goodbyes of any kind are really tough and force you to re-examine life the way it was- but soon a new chapter is right around the corner!Christina Leehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01799776834213400246noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17132364.post-82499613842978186532009-06-04T12:26:24.979-04:002009-06-04T12:26:24.979-04:00Goodbyes are hard, it's true. But the experie...Goodbyes are hard, it's true. But the experiences make it worthwhile.<br />Hello from sits :)Jennifer Juniperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07087072033452320694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17132364.post-5024293912920945342009-06-04T11:33:55.751-04:002009-06-04T11:33:55.751-04:00Do you ever end up in the same places again? And ...Do you ever end up in the same places again? And how long will you guys be in Cairo before you go somewhere else?Keys to the Magic Travelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15634829064005032831noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17132364.post-48255341330282711732009-06-04T11:05:53.746-04:002009-06-04T11:05:53.746-04:00Awww, goodbyes suck... And I'm in a similar sp...Awww, goodbyes suck... And I'm in a similar spot where my friends always move away! :( <br />I also find it interesting, as you mention in this posting, that they are returning to the 'real world.' I get a bit frustrated when people view any sort of living outside the US as,- well, a vacation and not that you are working, studying - LIVING abroad. I know that most people who go abroad do it as a short term thing for a few years, but I don't like the idea that they view it so much as a 'break' from 'real' life. ...that means that they probably are not letting themselves into the culture of the country they are in and that they are not allowing for themselves to see their place inside that culture. Yes, you are a foreigner and will always be one (even if you get citizenship), but that doesn't mean that you can't feel like it's your home or make it your home...<br />Sorry, but I work around people who go abroad for set periods of time and read a bunch of stuff about all this... :)Beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06168750409901638238noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17132364.post-43475182090507332442009-06-04T11:00:01.693-04:002009-06-04T11:00:01.693-04:00the more you do these international moves the smal...the more you do these international moves the smaller the world actually seems and after awhile it is like they are moving to another state.(Got to see the positives!!) I have luckily always been able to keep in touch with the firends I made evrywhere- I just thank my stars for facebook, email, and affordable phone- when I first moved to europe in the early 90's my family had ridiculous phone bills of 1000 USD a month!! Hang in there!Jemmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09918380458397747075noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17132364.post-21253843033068545202009-06-04T09:48:08.405-04:002009-06-04T09:48:08.405-04:00This goodbye issue is the greatest negative of my ...This goodbye issue is the greatest negative of my wandering expat life. I have good friends in all corners of the world, but now that I am in the US I have nobody in the neighborhood to go have coffee with!<br /><br />I keep fantasizing about starting a community in a sunny happy country where all of my friends will come and live once they quit the traveling life!<br /><br />Miss Footloose, sometimes wishing for roots somewhere.<br /><br />www.lifeintheexpatlane.blogspot.comMiss Footloosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15601892611652195901noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17132364.post-53414620354470549692009-06-04T09:28:01.951-04:002009-06-04T09:28:01.951-04:00Yes, thank goodness for facebook, blogs, etc. I al...Yes, thank goodness for facebook, blogs, etc. I always say "see you later" because it is such a small world!Lydiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18156931462264594753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17132364.post-30112850037328604182009-06-04T07:50:40.591-04:002009-06-04T07:50:40.591-04:00We extended our tour and have stayed here long eno...We extended our tour and have stayed here long enough that if we wait any longer, we'll have to trade in our passports for National ID's :) .. but it's our turn to leave now, and you are right... it sucks. We are excited to be moving on to a new adventure, but we're also leaving 'home' and lots of good friends - it's very hard! Thank goodness for the internet!!Conniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03667481504650498976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17132364.post-81186640877140439082009-06-04T07:35:48.913-04:002009-06-04T07:35:48.913-04:00I totally understand. It was hard growing up and ...I totally understand. It was hard growing up and always having to say goodbye to friends. It's never easy.<br /><br />But the good thing is that the internet makes it so much easier to keep in touch!<br /><br />Hugs...United Studieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16605529272895583783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17132364.post-86532105489009703152009-06-04T07:20:11.260-04:002009-06-04T07:20:11.260-04:00Stopping by to say hi from a new SITsa (I think th...Stopping by to say hi from a new SITsa (I think that's how you say it) <br /><br />Have a wonderful day. :DReviewer11http://reviewer11.bravediary.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17132364.post-50415154019683257312009-06-04T07:19:48.401-04:002009-06-04T07:19:48.401-04:00Aw! I can imagine how hard it is! Kind of like say...Aw! I can imagine how hard it is! Kind of like saying goodbye from camp or college but as an adult, there is so much more meaning and feeling with it, eh? Chin up, dear! Stopping by from SITS though I have been here before :) Glad I stopped by again!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17529744688470910218noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17132364.post-45081410275676945942009-06-04T06:59:15.872-04:002009-06-04T06:59:15.872-04:00Goodbye is never fun.Goodbye is never fun.The Blonde Duckhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00085499120024055465noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17132364.post-4597309332050153522009-06-04T06:44:43.088-04:002009-06-04T06:44:43.088-04:00It doesn't seem to matter if you are the leave...It doesn't seem to matter if you are the leaver or leavee - it still blows.<br /><br />I hate good bye - so I'm going with a bientot!<br /><br />Besides, the expat friends I've made will give me myriad vacation options with free lodging!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03235160316954103449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17132364.post-48039686029050985632009-06-04T03:44:30.380-04:002009-06-04T03:44:30.380-04:00Sorry... I feel your pain. Hang in there your tim...Sorry... I feel your pain. Hang in there your time to go home will come.... : ) HugsAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15669318430348189265noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17132364.post-59501273711763433362009-06-04T02:37:43.060-04:002009-06-04T02:37:43.060-04:00This has been a tough thing for us too, and especi...This has been a tough thing for us too, and especially this year, and especially for my kids. Five or six kids from my son's kindergarten class are moving away this summer, and we're worried some of our best friends here might end up leaving as well (they don't know yet). Ugh, it sucks.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01669854350736105189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17132364.post-40743217341054676192009-06-04T02:36:38.738-04:002009-06-04T02:36:38.738-04:00With the Internet, Facebook, Twitter and all the o...With the Internet, Facebook, Twitter and all the other social networks, it really isn't good-bye...<br /><br />but it still sucks when they are not there to help you through REAL life.LadyFihttp://ladyfi.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17132364.post-46940328588462668922009-06-04T02:31:58.014-04:002009-06-04T02:31:58.014-04:00I am so with you on this one.
I have also moved al...I am so with you on this one.<br />I have also moved all over the world and I hate saying bye not just to my family, but also friends. It is always worst for those who are the ones staying behind.Zuzanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02137958790178864561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17132364.post-8460794530877201022009-06-04T01:29:54.963-04:002009-06-04T01:29:54.963-04:00Thank God for the internet. It's so much easie...Thank God for the internet. It's so much easier to keep in touch with far away friends.theUngourmethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02433513087823589129noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17132364.post-10102469064955600122009-06-04T01:18:40.887-04:002009-06-04T01:18:40.887-04:00I know exactly what you mean! Saying goodbye is t...I know exactly what you mean! Saying goodbye is the hardest part of expat life. But knowing some of those wonderful people makes it all worth while.Brendahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00062037882359130530noreply@blogger.com